My H and I used a mediator along with my attorney. I like the mediator, because I fel more in control of our assets. I know it's all 50/50, but it seemed much easier, and she was more knowledgable than our attorney. MY attorney was very happy we did it that way.
Good luck, I'm sorry this is happening. No matter how much you get along and are willing to split things, it's very hard.
