I am the high drive partner in my situation. I have not posted for a while because things have been going well. She started making an effort to initiate and participate more, but I do see it sliding back to the norm. I have been concentrating more on myself- working out to make myself more desirable to her (she now touches me alot more), and to feel better about myself. I find that if I workout or run on a regular basis, my drive is lowered. I do not desire her less, but my blinding sexual desire is squashed enough to make the current amount of sex enough to keep me from thinking too much about it. Andy


God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.