I have a much higher drive than my wife. I don't think there is any one thing I can do to curb my desire for her. There have been nights I have slept in a differnet room just because laying next to her all I wanted to do was reach out and touch her (when I tried touching, I would get a comment of "won't you let me sleep"). We tried a compromise of I wouldn't try to initiate sex during the week so she could get her sleep, but Friday night, Saturday morning/night were fair game and she would go along with it if she wasn't on her P. That lasted 3 weeks, then she was refusing me every Friday and Saturday for 2 months straight. I still usually don't try to initiate on week nights, but try every weekend, I just end up MB a lot more.
