For me it was getting pounded time after time after time. My advances were rebuffed so many times. Finally after a particularly bad week this August, I just never rebounded. I don't pursue her. This is perhaps a little more information than you wanted but here goes. In the past, I wouldn't MB any night that I thought there was a chance W and I might ML. Then, if she refused, I would be really mad, because I had been denied twice, once by her and once by myself. Now I just let 'er rip any old night. I figure if she really wants it I'll find it somehow. But in any case, I go to bed relaxed and stress free. And as I mentioned in my other post, W has begun to sleep with me and without the kids, so the potential for nookie has increased.
I still think she's the hottest woman walking the face of the earth. I let her know I'm there whenever she wants me. But no more begging for me.
