oh, ouch, I'm not sure how I feel. I gave the naughty letter to H last night. Guess he liked it, initiated ml for the first time in quite a while on Wednesdays. He said it wasnt all that "nasty" though...
this morning he said it was more like PG. Maybe so, but for me it was a big change! Then he said it wasnt anything like the ones monster could dash off in a heartbeat, but that she wrote the same ones to every one....told him that was a difference, I'd never done anything like it in my life. He said I'd never seen the cybersex sites done with webcams...he's absolutely right....I havent. Said how wild they were. and of course I know monster was big on them. sheesh. THAT explains how/why our computer at home is screwed up, I'm guessing he had her set it up thinking I wouldnt figure out how to get onto it. Well, I did, but havent been on it for I bet a year, I just don't want to be around it. I'm sure if I had looked around, I'd have had some shocking revelations.
I don't know, it just kind of sucks, I don't want to hear this, Told him I didnt want to hear it and that he was getting me po'd. I guess what i'm "pondering" is why the heck did he even tell me this?????? teasing, out of spite, or just "clueless"? he seemed really noncommital and unemotional when he was saying it, almost like he was recounting an event to an uninvolved party.
On another front, I am so stressed right now. We have to move D and SIL this weekend, besides all that work and having them in our house, they are having one heck of a time with the property managment company they have been leasing from. The company has done lots of illegal things the whole time they've lived there, and now are really giving them the run around and screwing them over. I told them 2 months ago to get an attorney. well, they finally put in a call to one yesterday. havent gotten to talk to any one yet. 2 days before they leave. Kids. detach, detach, detach, detach, detach, detach, detach
Oh yeah, H said the other nurse told him that the HR director and her supervisor are meeting with monster regularly again. Commented he's going to try to find out what thats all about. which I suppose means he'll ask her.
I just commented that the HR director doesnt meet regularly with a person as standard procedure, which H said he knew. Detach more!!!!!
I don't know, maybe all this is in the 2 steps forward, 1 back category. I know H is really stress about this weekend and the kids moving in as well,so maybe that's part of it. In fact when he got home from work last night he was just plain mad. At least the PG rated letter got him on a different track from that.
I'm not sure what I do now, keep detaching and being somewhat provacative, less predictable, or at least trying to, I guess.
