Hi dfb...yeah, I will send him the note, but I'm thinking I may not do it today. He is kind of irritable right now, I emailed him asking how he knew about monsters vacation and he emailed back asking why so many questions, and saying he talks to the other nurse (who has been a friend and coworker for like 15/16 years) when monster is gone and she is a fountain of info. Said he was stressed with all the paper work. so, guess I poked the bear when I should have let it sleep. Now, I'll back off a bit and I think either mail the note or leave it where he'll find it at home...
Yeah, you're right, I know he still has twinges or he wouldnt be so "odd" about "trouble in paradise"....sigh. I cant' change job locations, I can be on the road and out of the office quite a bit, but I still have to see her. H is still in line to be full time in the out of town office, but that will probably be in March. so a while to go, and he will still have to have some contact with her as long as they both work here. bleh.
I have to say, I'm able to handle the monster encounters better than I used to be. they used to make me ill, crazed, quaking. now they just fill me with disgust and disdain and I'm able to look her right in the eye. and she looks away. I believe I will start looking for opportunities to park next to her. I could go back to trying to get my little stuffed "hot stuff" devil to stand up on the dash! I would like to strangle her......
I did write the letter out of love, not just because he would like it, although I sure hope it might have a positive effect.
Guess I'll have to put on my "as if" hat tonight since H has turned so stressed and cranky...however, he usually comes out of this pretty quickly. my fingers are crossed this time will be the same.
