Deb -

but I've read some of YoYo's phone convos w/her H and they amaze me.
Errrmmmm...I hope not in a bad way!!! I have to say that I think that they only thing that is not going down the drain is our s@x life. *sigh* Even with all these yoyo-ing and sh@t in our M, I guess when it comes to s@x, we still have the hots for each other. I guess in the DBING sense, if that is the only connection that we have, I guess that's what I have to use to my favour. The other thing is that ow absolutely has NO boobs....so, am using that to my favour too. Am flaunting it more with my updated wardrobe. I am normally the very conservative frumpy mummy. But no more..and to be honest...it did give me a kind of confidence boost....

I have been feeling kinda down and dejected lately and not wanting to do any DBING stuff. In fact, I've been rather negative and derailing from positives that I am receiving. Just in no mood to continue......but I guess lurking in this BB kinda does steer one to continue with the DBING efforts... I've been holding back with filling up my children's application forms for the school in COuntry X...but after speaking to my mentor and seeing that I should use whatever positive means to steer my position to be a more positive one, I guessed I will do it.... At least, even if it doesn't work out, it won't be my fault. I've done my best...so, I will go home and fill up those d@mn forms.

my bras are all getting kinda shabby...
What are you waiting for?? Go out and buy those matching sets girl!!! Nothing is sexier than a set of matching bra and undies.... Hee Hee... In fact, I bought four sets of matching bras and undies on my short break away... Designs that I normally wouldn't have bought... lilac coloured , baby-blue.... mmmmmm yum yum.... Have been giving little hints to H about what I've bought.... wet his appetite for me...

Read in one of your previous post that you will start being the initiator... Don't know if you have read the book "Make Up, Don't Break Up". In the book, it says that women are generally the "connection guardians" and if women don't initiate the connection, usually connection will be "lost". So, go ahead and initiate contact.... Don't be dejected if H is not sooo warming to your connection attempt...try later... Just don't stop!!!

One Day at a TIME!!!