Guess I should focus on the fact that things are much different now than 2 yeaars ago. Then she was on a romantic vacation with my H, and it looked for all the world like she was going to get him, I was lost and discouraged and depressed, broken hearted. NOW, she's off galavanting around, same old routine, with her newest conquest, but the good/best thing about it is that H honestly seems uninterested, even relieved.

I guess underneath it all, I am still furious that anyone can wreak such havoc on a family's life, and feel "entitled" to do so, and have no regrets. It just blows my mind. incomprehensible, although I know it's absolutely true.


Forgot to post, H mentioned yesterday, that the more he considers the family dynamics and state of the lives of monsters siblings, the more he believes there was probably incest. I've always kind of had that "inkling" also. H says she denies it, but he is now convinced that there was.


been around awhile!