Quote: Deb - Quit waiting for him to email. Email him yourself - often!!!!! Clearly he responds to the attention. Don't leave a void for OW to fill. Send him silly things, brief notes that don't require a response, jokes, pictures of you(so long as they are appropriate for the work computer). I'm guessing he'll have a harder time gettting sucked into her drama if every email from her is followed by a cute, funny one from you!
Ellie really is brilliant! This falls right into line with your...
when he is disgusted at her, and when we've been especially close, and he has been really affectionate.
Try not to shut him down. Keep "training" his brain to respond to thoughts of......
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monster =
You can make this all happen without saying a word against her. Let her keep hanging herself.
JJ
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