3rd email was from H, said "that was sure brief"; I emailed back that I was having a tough day and sometimes briefer is better then.

So, what do I do now????? I can give him an ultimatum....again....but I can't control if he emails her or not. I really am trying to decide what to do now, if I over react, that puts me on the par with monster, on the other hand he needs to make it clear to her, as he said he had, that there will be no contact. plus he's not been wanting to discuss anything lately, so I've been trying to just "act as if" and go with the flow...


been around awhile!