The ugly monster keeps rearing it's head, and doesn't seem to go away.
H said he would never again say a word about anything between them, I told him that makes it worse.
Yup, I definitely think you're right on that. This could take a bad situation for you, and make it worse.
When are the times when something comes up involving her, and things seem to go better than other times? What are you both doing when the monster subject goes away quicker than other times, and/or is less intense?
JJ
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