Hey Deb, I think big picture things are getting better for you. This sitch with out of town woman is doing nothing more than reminding H how messed up Monster was and how bad of a mistake he made to even have EA with her. I would just stay on track with making the new R the best you can and least the past become the past. If my W was saying half the things your H is I would be in heaven. Appreciate what you have and what you have accomplished, you deserve every bit of happiness, you earned it. Don't hold on to old garbage, it's just not worth it.
