There is something that I know is weighing heavily on H's mind (and mine too, for that matter). D and SIL are most likely going to be moving in with us for a while in about a month. they are needing to (wanting to) come back "home" to this area....
H commented that "we are just now getting things put back together, and they will be adding to the stress, I guess all our good times will go down the tubes"...I told him I refuse to let that happen, they will need to be giving us "space" and out doing their own thing... but I have to admit it does worry me. The plan is to clean out the basement room that now houses h's books and computer and has the phone he's spent days with monster on, and let them have that for a bedroom, and to hopefully finish off a teeny part for a private sitting area for them, and there is a pretty private entrance to the basement. so maybe it won't be too bad. OR, maybe the best case scenario will happen, and they will have found jobs by the time they come back and be able to get their own place.
I am certainly praying for that! Of course and upside could be that we might be able to take off for a weekend and leave S13 with them!