i havent posted for a while...things have been going really good. last weekend H took me and S and one of S's friends to out of town office...I had never seen his office! then he took us to lunch at the little cafe he used to take ow to! yay! H initiated ml 4 times over the weekend, every day....he's been pretty positive and loving and cheerful.
monster still drives me nuts though, or at least i have a hard time not letting her do that....today again she was parked by H's vehicle....I was doing ok, giving myself pep talks that she's not worth getting upset about, and that I just need to keep focusing on making us "great" and "greater"...I had a couple of emails with ILY in them this morning....then this afternoon I get this forward from H: (caution, you are about to get to read a fight between monster and H)....
Email from H to me with his correspondence with monster attached: (this will be confusing, as it ends at the top and starts at the bottom) Man; I had a hell of a fight with Monster. She pisses me off so bad!! Tell me if you don’t think I’m right. I’m really ready to take this to HR and company. She just always has to be a snot, a damn excuse for everything! I love you! Your D
From: H Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 2:44 PM To: monster Subject: RE:
Frankly I may just do that. Your e-mail was out of line and you know it. All you needed to say was that yes, you were going to call and discuss her medication issues, period end of message!! The agency policy is that e-mails are checked regular and responded to, you didn’t do this. I don’t think you want this going to HR. I well know I am not the only person here unhappy with your responses and performance. For your information happy faces are inappropriate, no body else in this agency does this, for good reason! Perhaps all this should be addressed at your next yearly review in November? I generally address my questions directly to (monsters supervisor)with a cc to you so that I know they will be addressed, I shall continue to do so and will be glad to explain to her why I’m doing so if you wish me to do so. I am through with your poor, uncooperative attitude. I consider it abusive and uncalled for. I expect professional, polite and accurate information to be exchanged from this moment forward! If taking this to everyone concerned is what it takes then so be it!!
From: monster Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 2:04 PM To: H Subject: RE:
Anymore of these type of emails will be sent to (monsters supervisor), (H's supervisor) and (HR).
-----Original Message----- From: H Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 1:58 PM To: monster Subject: RE: Importance: High
Please; I don’t want or need a lecture from you for your inattention. I’m sick of your excuses, personal and or professional. I just want a response from you so that I know my client’s needs are being addressed. Calling her later today is fine. I just need to know that you are acting on the e-mail, if I don’t hear from you I can only assume you are not and so I e-mail (supervisor) as well. Funny,(supervisor) responds to my e-mails in a timely manner, even though not marked “High Importance”.
From: monster Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 1:44 PM To: H Cc: monsters supervisor Subject: RE:
Yes, I will call her and address her issues w/ her medication. I did not see where you marked your email as "Importance: High" so it was view along w/ my other emails in the order they came. When you are needing a response prior to the end of your session (in this case, 20 minutes), please mark your emails as "Importance: High" and I will do my best to address the issue prior to the patient leaving. Thanks
-----Original Message----- From: H Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 12:57 PM To: monster Cc: monsters supervisor Subject: FW:
Since I received no response back regarding this e-mail can I assume that you will contact P by phone?
From: DD (H) Sent: Tuesday, October 25, 2005 10:39 AM To: DK (monster) Subject:
I am presently meeting with P.. She is wondering if she can take (a med) with out interfering with her other medications. She is also complaining of tremors with the increased --. Her PCP said she was to mention this to medical staff. I don’t know if you would like to call her later, e-mail something back before the session ends or visit with her before she leaves. TKs D
Dang, what do you all make of this?????? It kind of concerns me that H is set off by her so easily, now I havent heard back from him since I responded, told him I got the impression she was baiting him, but didnt know if it was worth bothering with....
