I just had a thought. i know H is reading not just friends, and it talks about "reclaiming territories"....I wonder if maybe that is part of what has inspired him to talk about going to his office this weekend. I hope so....
He's also starting to talk about looking for new places to vacation. he used to refuse to consider it. I wonder if this is part of his focus on the future and rebuilding for us. I hope so on that point to.
Meanwhile, I need to focus on getting back to my weight loss program (NOT doing well here lately) and exercise (ditto) and decluttering the house and straightening out our finances. It is amazing how much goes to "pot" when an affair happens. I can't decide if it's "because of" the a, or just a whole syndrome.....I'm guessing they are all part of a syndrome, MLC maybe, for both of us?
