ok, a few minutes to post. our D and SIL are looking for jobs to move back to our area, which is good, BUT, they may need to stay with us for a while. I am kinda scared that the "pressure" could set H off again, I'm not 100% sure how "cooked" he is....I think he's pretty well done, but it's hard to predict. We don't have a large house, but what we could do is finish off a part of the basement really quickly which would give the kids a bedroom and a sitting area plus H's workout area down there.
Last night he commented that he wasnt looking forward to it because he felt like they would be intrusive (I think he just means he wont feel like he has as much privacy, they arent intrusive) but that if it was what needed to be to get them where they need to go, that was ok....for a short while.
I think as well it would be hard, but I can't, and don't think h could either, turn them down, for the simple fact that it looks like SIL may be the one who finds a job first, and I don't want her staying where they are now by herself, it is in a kind of "rough" part of town in a big city. Guess I'm an overprotective mom....
I just hope and pray we can find a way to keep from having it put too much strain on our hard-earned new M....
Of course, SIL hasnt even interviewed yet, so I'm putting the cart before the horse worrying about something that hasnt happened yet (can you say "crazy-making? I can!)but still...
Has anyone dealt with this? we have a good R with the kids, and I know they want to be on their own and have their privacy.
