Today, this very day, is the 2nd anniversary of "the bomb"....when I got confirmation of H's damned affair. I'm doing ok, actually, partly because H is so loving these days.
This morning we were talking and I told him the significance of the date, and he said he didnt recall dates like I do (true)...and I mentioned that I think we are as "good" as we'ver ever been, even in the beginning. and H said he thinks we are BETTER than we've EVER been, even in the beginning.
So, great news, right? yes, and I'm happy and relieved. but get this.....monster must remember dates. H has talked about her always having to have the last word. Well, today H got to work first....I got to work after him....I parked in my usual place, h is at right angles around the parking lot corner in what would be right next to me, next space around the corner but.....yep, you guessed it, monster parked next to H, right in between us. it has to be purposeful, because there is not even a parking place where she's parked...she's just pulled right in next to him on the end of the row. If that isn't "in the face" to me, I don't know what is. I did send an email grumping to H about it, which I shouldnt have done, because he may read her the riot act about it, which she would probably love to have so she had something to complain about him to the boss about. the nerve of that woman. It is truly incredible.
