Deb - I am so happy that you are becoming a Success Story. I just hope and pray that mine would slowly morph into one. I see positives in my H, am hopeful but am still cautious and try not to expect too much. BUT it is rather hard. I think the rubber band trick really works! I have to remind myself constantly to be patient and not PUSH too hard. I have some ppl who tells me that although I don't want to sound too PUSHY, I should give subtle signals to H that I do want him back. On one hand, I am trying to NOT pursue and practice the LRT, but on the other hand, want to practise AS-IF. Those are two extremes... I am trying to find a middle ground.
I have to remind myself constantly to be patient and not PUSH too hard. I have some ppl who tells me that although I don't want to sound too PUSHY, I should give subtle signals to H that I do want him back. On one hand, I am trying to NOT pursue and practice the LRT, but on the other hand, want to practise AS-IF. Those are two extremes... I am trying to find a middle ground.
