Deb--I love checking in with you. You do inspire me to keep working at this. I wish my H could be as forthcoming with his feelings as yours is, but he just can't express himself that way. I just have to watch and keep looking for his 'round about' way of letting me know things. I hope your H can finally get some peace from Monster after the meeting with her super. I am very happy for you--what an awesome success story you are!