KDU-Listen to what BB is saying. I think that is an excellent idea. Once you start going out socializing more often with people this takes your mind off H. I've started doing this since July and it has done wonders for me. There is a fake GAL that we want WAS to see that we've moved on, and then there's the real GAL where it really doesn't matter if WAS sees it or not, but it does make you feel good.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years