Girly I'm so sorry that your H is still playing head games, still being wishy washy, and still trying to drag you back into it all.
All those reasons he listed for leaving is a bunch of hoo-ha, you know that dont you? Your doing a good job of keeping your head above it all and yes you are strong......just realizing and accepting things for what they are proves that. And it will still hurt, but as you know it gets better.
KDU - I've told you a million times how similar our sitches are and trust me - your H is NOT happy in his current sitch and he knows itm, he just doesnt want to admit it, he'd rather flit around and string you along. I want you to know that it will all come full circle for you and your H will be standing in a line! My STBX is now doing the same things to her that he did to me????? now if he were truly as happy as he said he wouldnt bother calling me, stopping by unexpectantly, leaving messages and wanting to see me - too bad he's a day late and a dollar short.......he has nothing to his name...nothing. Everything he has is HERS.....loser!
