I'm so sorry that you had to hear such nasty things. You really don't deserve them. You are such a kind and spirited person, and to me every single thing on his list of complaints could have simply read "I'm insecure". He's dealing with a lot of self-esteem issues and you cannot fix that for him.
You handled it really well and should be proud of yourself. He's speaking in absolutes because he has to convince himself. It sounds like as he changes women, he's running out of people to blame, so he's gone back to blaming you. One of these days he's going to have to stop pointing fingers.
