(((((KDU)))) I am soooo sorry to hear about your sitch. For awhile, things did look to be bright. Perhaps, H felt that you were PUSHING/PURSUING with that line of questioning because you would still have a torch for him to ask that kind of question. I think if you were to lay-off and "date", I am sure your H would react differently. Unless, you are sooo tired of this roller-coaster ride that you really want to hop off and not go on it ever again.