O.K. I had to post this latest info I have had from H b/c it has done my vindictive side the world of good. PMA is feeling a whole lot better, let me explain....
H is working for us today and we were chatting this morning and he said he has had a really bad last 2 days. So of course I ask him why and he says that OW (yes that he split up with in August) is giving him a really hard time.
It seems that he told her on Wednesday he had been out a couple of times with this Nurse and apparently she took it O.K. at the time and said she didn't know why he was telling her as he was a free man blah blah and was fine with it or so he thought.
Then he gets nasty nasty messages to his mobile from her and her threatening to commit suicide blah blah. So h goes around and sees her last night and apparently she was hysterical crying etc and giving him a really hard time.
H said to me that he is really worried about what she will do at work now as it seems she is out to cause him trouble and grief. (big sigh oooohh) Anyhow he says that as he has only been seeing this nurse as a friend and nothing else has happened that he might stop seeing her as he doesn't want to cause her trouble and he knows that OW is going to give her a hard time at work.
He now says to me that he would like to leave work and that he should have listened to me ages ago when I was telling him that OW was not a truthful person. For those who remember OW was contacting me telling me things and denying it to my H and he kept believing her and not me as she made out I was the one contacting her. Well now he knows better.
Anyhow it seems he has got himself into a real bother and you can bet OW will make his life very hard and cause no end of trouble for him at work. Now he realises that I wasn't so bad and that his mind was influenced by OW. Der we could have told him that.
So I find this whole thing so amusing and am really fighting the urge to say hah hah hah I told you so. But I am just validating him and telling him to be careful but I also said I can understand OW a little as H doesn't inform someone that it is over he just says he needs a break which doesn't give people closure. He said he understands this now and I said oh well maybe that will mean you wont make the same mistake again.
So it will be interesting to see what else unfolds re this drama but I tell you Karma comes back and bites you on the ar$e eventually. So OW can KMA as she definately got what she deserves and I must admit to see H squirm a bit brings a smile to my face. I do love him but revenge is sweet sometimes especially if it has nothing to do with yourself. So the sadistic side of me really feels he has got nothing less than what he deserves. Is that awful of me???? Will keep you all updated I just thought you would all like to hear of when things go a bit haywire on the flip side...... ...KDU
...KDU 