Kim I agree with wannabestrong, don't question H on his change in behaviour, just watch and wait. We do tend to spend a lot of time waiting.... waiting.... waiting... Just as well we are a patient lot in this land of limbo. Bring on those cabana boys! (why are they called cabana boys, all I can think of is cabana sausage which may just be an Aussie thing and the image I get while a good one may not be accurate... can you tell I am sex deprived).
Ooops Kim, sorry for the hijack. A bit sidetracked there. It must be true about women in their 40s