First of all sorry for the hi-jack. Just wanted you to know that there are others who know how you feel...
About this latest issue: I would say continue to be as patient as you have been...
H has been seeing a nurse, but that is probably because he is still confused and still doesn't know what he wants... He is going to the gym with you and he wants to come over more often and he is considering your feelings during the phone calls (and apologising when wrong). These have to be baby steps in the right direction.
I can understand that it is not comfortable right now because of the mixed signals, but you have to focus on yourself.... You like having him around, so enjoy it, but don't build up any expectations... I know that will be the hardest thing.
BB said it very well - think of him as a male friend, nice to have around if he is there and when he is there...
