All right Kim, here's a thought, but it's probably not much of an idea.
For two weeks, see if you can view him in a way similar to how you view Jarrod. For two weeks, he's just your friend that you do fun things with. Enjoy your time together, be as nice as you can. Make him wonder what you're up to, and whatever you do make sure you don't tell him!
At the end of two weeks, if it's too hard, start backing away. But if you're okay with it, go another two weeks. There's some emotional need that you're filling for him or else he wouldn't keep coming back. Maybe it's not an emotional need that will ever lead to romance, but who knows? For right now, it's your hook. Take your time and set the hook. When you're sure he's bitten on it hard, or when you don't want to deal with it any more, you can start backing off and see if he starts coming forward to you. One of Michele's main concepts is "Try Something Different". So hey, it's worth a shot. Be as absolutely nice and pleasant to H as you can be and monitor the results.
You might also find that you are overly nice to him and he doesn't appreciate it the way he should. Then maybe you'll get pi$$ed off and that'll help you detach some more. Nothing wrong with a little well-hidden righteous anger every once in awhile.
Be good, Kim. Don't let him tweak your PMA for long. You have GAL and you don't need him unless he's ready to be the man you deserve.
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