Wannabe - As long as you can detach from H's actions, live your own life and not let anything affect you,...I say sit on the 'MRS' Throne PATIENTLY until OW gets so fed-up that she pushes your H to push you off the 'MRS' Throne. Then your H will either se that OW is quite horrid and not worth his while, or he will decide that the horrid OW is really who he wants... As long as you can detach, if H is with OW, either you are a MRS or an EX-MRS, regardless, you will still not have your H for yourself. The only difference is THAT, OW will remain OW in the 'MRS' option. So..... I say....SIT on your 'MRS' Throne PATIENTLY...
