I swear some of these WAS's just hang around until their LBS gets it together, gets tired of their crap, and makes the decision for them.
I wholly AGREE!!!! I think this is what my H is sort of doing.... I don't think he wants to make the decision, as he would be afraid to be the one who gives us his LOVING family for OW. He wants me to make the decision for him so that he could well say that I didn't want him....
In fact I have even asked H on a few occassions if he was waiting for me to say it was over..? He threatens me with separation (which would be good for me but not for the kids - so I'm hanging on) but does not follow through - because it's "my call". WTF?
