This is for BB.... Detaching has made it easier for me so I guess I cope with everything better at the moment so yes that would be with the kids too i think. To be honest I need to stop and think about that.... Yep I would definately say I cope better with the kids. B4 I was not coping very well with most things as H was in my head 24/7 and I wasn't getting the reactions or results I was striving so hard to get now that I have detached I am not after results anymore so this makes me a better person to be around and therefore that's gotta be better for my kids.
Honestly I feel a fair bit guilty for being so self absorbed over the last few months that I feel I have neglected the kids a little...not their day to day care or being there for them but by not being truly switched on to them but no more....they are good kids and have taken it all in their stride and yes they are enjoying their holidays thankyou for asking but now their rooms become alot more messy so I nag them more...hehehehe....KDU
Yep I would definately say I cope better with the kids. B4 I was not coping very well with most things as H was in my head 24/7 and I wasn't getting the reactions or results I was striving so hard to get now that I have detached I am not after results anymore so this makes me a better person to be around and therefore that's gotta be better for my kids.