KDU - Holy moly, you really have detached! What brought you to this level of detachment? Was the last reconciliation attempt the straw that broke the camel's back? (to start bandying about cliches).
I'm also curious about the title of your thread New "Tactics". Are they tactics? Is your end goal still reconciliation? You seem to be rocking the GAL so well without him, I'm wondering if this is past a tactic!
Regardless, I love hearing how much fun you're having - you've certainly earned it. Hopefully I'll be there sooner rather than later...