New tactics for me.....

[Burgbud]

This is going to sound a bit funny but I hope I can meet someone who shows a bit of interest in me as I believe it will give me the self confidence I need to realise i don't need H in my life. I am not saying a full on relationship with someone but just enough interest to show me I am worth more and still interesting to someone else I guess.....Mmmm to dream...

That's no dream, KDU. That'll happen. I wouldn't be surprised if you've spent much of your married life making sure that wouldn't happen. I'll bet you tended to discourage interest from other men until it became so automatic that you didn't realize you were doing it. It'll be interesting to see what happens if/when you let that barrier back down a little bit.


I am now really living for me and my kids and he just doesn't factor at the moment.

Good for you. If he's strong enough, he'll catch up. If not, you'll find someone who is. It might take longer than you want because there aren't that many squared away men in the world. Ya know?


Beware people I am sure I am going into a venting overload.

Bring it!