New tactics for me.....

[kaydeekay]

Hi KDU...missed you. Oh boy, what a post you had. My only advice would be to detach yourself completely from H. You went out of your way to mend the bridges with H and his family, I don't think I could have done that. But did H appreciate what you did? I don't think so.

I know you want H to see S more often than he is. I don't know if he is not due to guilt or just being selfish. It sad that the innocent victims of the A are the kids. Have you asked H if he would like to extend his weekend visits? Or maybe have H spend time with S one day during the week.

Continue to vent here when needed. I know it feels good when you argue with H and get things off your chest but in the end I think it just shows them what a negative person they imagined us being and just justifies the A more. Make any sense? Hang in there.