KDU... thank you so much for your post. It does help to know someone else out there knows what it's like, though I wish no one else was going through this. Your H and my H...they can say one thing and do another...it's because they don't know what they want from one minute to the next. They are in la la land. And meanwhile, like you say, we're sitting back, GAL, but really waiting for the next crumb as you said. I'm sorry you are going through this. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. But KDU, girl, you are going to be OK. And so am I. Our H's are just one person out of this big world. Their confusion has nothing to do with us, so just remember that.
