I must completely agree with our friend from Oklahoma here. KDK, you nailed it. Sometimes I feel like I'm in the minority out here but sometimes one needs to throw "the book" aside and say "enough is enough".
1) Some of these marriages will be reconciled, and that's great! 2) Some of them won't and that will be in some cases, a shame. 3) Some of the folks out here will keep holding on to the hope of a reconciliation for years while their spouses continue to sh*t on them. 4) Some of these marriages will NOT be reconciled...and that's OK too. Maybe some of them shouldn't be, you know?
It's #4 that I see a lot of people really fighting. I feel as long as the LBS (the DB'er) has become a better person out of the DB process, it is still a positive thing.
Again, I think your conversation was completely appropriate. Keep up the strong work Kim...
