More reading - which one are you?

[cinemanymph]

His answer is that he's a dork, a loser, stupid, slow, awkward, reserved, inadequate, unsexy, is not handsome/rich/smart enough to be my husband, etc.

No wonder your H is having problems with being a virile man. Can you imagine (insert very manly man's name here) ever thinking these things about himself? With all of those negative lables swirling around in his head, it's a wonder that he even gets out of bed in the morning! Even if they are not true for you, most likely your H still believes them. How then does he tell himself that those lables don't apply? How does he turn them around to say, "I am capable, I am a sexy beast, I deserve this passionate woman, I can figure it out, I am irresistable in pocket protectors and horn rims, etcetera?