Quote: I've also come to conclusion that H doesn't see himself as lacking in desire. He sees himself as overwhelmed which "can't be helped." I don't care about the label but it does affect how he views my reading that kind of literature - stuff about "rekindling desire" and so forth. He thinks that we both feel passionately for each other so therefore there is nothing to rekindle. The difference is that he has the luxury of "knowing" that I feel that for him whereas I don't "know" that he feels that for me.
Karen, how does he know what you feel for him?
I ask because NOP is quite a passionate man, but this did not equate to me really knowing how he felt about me.
To me, his passion was something that came *from* him, not necessarily something that came as a *result* of me.
