Guns a blazing, that is definitely NOT me. If anything I need a little more of that kind of stuff. I am a conflict avoider. We hardly ever aurgue. That is part of the problem, we need to get tings in the open more. I am a pursuer though, I thikn a lot of us HD's are. In our relationship, at least physically, it is all from me to her, she does not persue me at all in a physical sense.
