I don't think it breaks out that easily in general.

MsHD & MsOgLOU strike me as blamers.
Mr. Corri and NOP strike me as distancers.
I am a pursuer and I perceive that NG is as well.

Apologies in advance for any possible offense made by my armchair therapy. No offense was meant and I will glady take it all back.

I think we see a higher preponderance of pursuers here because the board is self-selected toward people who have a problem and are desperately looking for a solution. I don't think HD/LD outside of this board would break out into pursuer/distancer as easily. HD folks who would be distancers aren't as apt to be looking for a solution online.

MrsNOP -