Quote: Ouch! I might need a lot of Dutch Courage to do it that way. but yes, it might be the only way to make it work. Make it an inevitable event, set, planned and booked. If she doesn't want to go, the only message I can read in that is that she doesn't have any intention on improving things or putting an effort in.
What's she going to do? Shoot you?
Look at it this way: you're showing her how much you care and how important this is to you by really sticking your neck out. Her not going must not be a viable option. You must come clean and tell her you care so much and you are so desperate that she must work on this with you.
