mqo wrote[quot]For a philisophical analogy, it's a different form of the good old tree in the wood: "If a tree falls in the wood, and you pretend you didn't hear it, and look away, you can comfort yourself with the idea that it never fell."
Well put.
I think you should go to the therapist with her sometime. She invited you. You may have to force her out of her comfort zone-- anyway, she's clearly not very comfortable there. Are you sure she's actually going to the therapist and not just shopping or something. Doesn't sound like a lot of progress.