Re: Mqo we're for example on the couch, she won't get a cuddle and a loving embrace. I don't invite her to lay her head on my lap. ........Initially I did this more out of self preservation, keeping my sanity,
I had to do something like this to keep from getting so frustrated. It worked for a while but then the sled (relationship)went to the bottom of the hill.
You have to check the pulse of the R and determine if what you are doing is working or getting you farther away from your goal.