As you are saying that we have NO IDEA what they are doing, thinking, feeling, believing, wanting, understanding, how they are acting or WHY!;
YOU have NO IDEA what I am thinking, feeling, believing, wanting, understanding, or WHY -- even regarding the events, my thoughts, or actions prior to him WA.
If this is not a safe place to voice our thoughts, then why should I even be here? or any of us for that matter.
