Here is my latest set of goals. I will post them here to keep me on track! Note: this is a major revision, therefore it is definitely a WIP!
Goals: Financial Security/Future Goals having my own house having a better car providing for my kids
Get a Job Start pushing resume again Do interviews Followup w/thankyou letters
How will I know I'm progressing? Keep track of companies applied to Make checklist of positives during interviews getting a job offer!
Debts/bills do not create any new debt keep w/in spending plan keep working w/creditors to bring old debt down attack these w/vengeance once I'm working
How will I know I'm progressing? Monitor w/spreadsheet on spending plan Monitor w/spreadsheet on debt total
Purchases stay realistic in spending plan food/shelter/heat/transportation paid first kids/cable/phone/clothing paid second
How will I know I'm progressing? Keep track of which bills are paid on time/late there will be more food in the house! I will have less stress over spending $
Personal Goals: S9's care and well-being is most important Spending more time w/other kid's Spending more time w/family Creating time for my own well-being
S9 Look into more options on his health set a dental appointment check on therapies in relocation areas have bloodwork re-evaluated keep working on potty training
How will I know I'm progressing? Monitoring his behavior and health Getting him completely potty trained Watching his mood in correlation to changes in life
Dd25 #1 & #2 Spend time w/them (plan visits) contact them instead of having them call me set some boundaries on what is discussed S17 follow up on his grad stuff/pic taken contact recruiter w/him allow time for adjustment if we move Family call mom every sat instead of her calling me call sis/nieces every other w/e plan visits
How will I know I'm progressing? better relationship w/all my kids! better relationship w/all my family
ME! keep working out slacked off on this and need to get going again cut down on caffeine start drinking more water eating more healthy snacks will help curb withdrawal quit smoking cut down to 1/2 pack smoke outside only again! go back to patch/gum if necessary new wardrobe sort out everything that I don't wear plan this w/in spending plan spiritual growth finish reading pdl keep reading bible find a church to belong to housekeeping dishes and laundry done everyday keep sorting out misc stuff to donate/trash PMA goals set aside time (and time limit!) for hobbies
How will I know I'm progressing? I will look and feel my best I will be more relaxed and less stressed