It's day 33! And that's how I figure this also. Ex has never liked it when I've went dark on him, as then he doesn't have his 'safety net' - me! (and yes, I still have that role even w/o the M)
One of the principles of Db/Dr is to do what works and a period of darkness has worked b4. S9 just puts a little twist into it, but I have already spoke w/my atty; nothing in the custody requires that we keep in constant contact. Only reasonable and agreeable visitation by the two parties. (this was his wording, I wanted specifics listed so he couldn't pull this on s9)
Anyways, he's not getting an immediate reply today. BTW, how would he know that I still have email service? I had mentioned I might lose it as it is a luxury expense. T
