T - I disagree with Wes about breaking your 40 day thing. How many days are you in to it? I think you need to do what's best for you. Maybe it would be different if your H was making an effort above and beyond, but he doesn't seem to be. He was the one who wanted things to be the way they are, I think he should have to deal with them. If you're doing it to take care of you, then I think you're doing the right thing.
