I know your S has special needs, but I wish D2(soon to be 3) would start acting like she wants to potty like a big girl. Doesn't seem to be a big deal to her yet and I'm not pushing her, other than the occasional question if she'd like to go potty. I don't want to be a toilet Nazi and give her some sort of complex later on in life. I don't think XW is pushing the issue too much, either.