Good for you T!! I'm happy you got the job situation nailed down. That must be a relief. Now you just have to go to work.

There is too much for your X to work through on his own without involving you. Just enjoy your life and leave him on the back burner til he's worked out his issues.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt