Ex used to buy me snickers all the time, even during the div!
Well, a lot of confused feelings here today! Everything happening all at once seems like. At least, my portion of life is good!
Ex and Ex's ex have spent two days in court over ss14. Things were all haywire as the appointed case worker had screwed everything up. The judge had ordered ss14 into a treatment center for his behavior problems and the c-worker put him in foster care instead. And has been giving into everything he wants so she wouldn't get caught. So, now ss14 HAS to go to the treatment center and ex won't get custody until that's completed.
He wasn't pleased about losing 2 days work over this. And his place of employment is getting relocated by the end of the year, which means he will have to move or drive 80 miles to work.
Most of this didn't bother me.
What did bother me, but I'm trying to let it slide oooooffffff ________>> ex's ex believes the ow is living w/him now! Said he talked about how she doesn't fill the dishwasher full when she runs it. Or the washer even tho it's hers??
Trouble in paradise, or just abnormal/normal behavior?
And his visit here must not have registered much in his mind, he complained about all the trouble "I" caused in court during the div proceedings! HHMMMMPPPHHHH!!!
And he still has called me this week. haven't talked since the visit.
But as I say, there is only 'good' in my life! I took the job in Mad-town! We worked it out and I can start as soon as I line up daycare for s9. Which I have two, maybe three good possibilities at the moment. The k's had a great first day of school. well, s9 did; s17 says it was just ok!
We are off to celebrate tonite. Skipping the nachos, cookies and even chinese and going for good old pizza!