I have the same way of dealing with anger, and when it comes out, H now tells me he feels completely overwhelmed. I am generally much more emotional than he is (he basically doens't know what he is feeling and is passive-aggressive). This is mainly what we are dealing with right now in MC. We have our third appt in a couple of hours, then are going to Retrouvaille tomorrow. He is still living with a friend, but I am hopeful b/c he really seems to want to work on this.
Thanks for the ideas, Sage.
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